Many senior living residents admitted to thinking they were “too young for senior living” before making a move. “There’s too many old people there,” they said. Does that sound familiar?
In this series, we’ll explore frequently asked questions about the right time to move while discussing real life in senior living communities, and the unexpected advantages of moving at a younger age. Today we’ll review six common objections prospective residents share when considering a senior living move.
Common Objections to Senior Living
Growing older brings a new perspective, but it can also mean our minds feel younger than our bodies. Many people would agree that age is just a number, yet those numbers are like hard lines in the sand when it comes to doing something we believe is for a younger or older version of ourselves.
It is not uncommon for prospective residents to think they are “too young for senior living,” or feel apprehensive about admitting a need for community or a more supportive lifestyle. Let’s look at some of the most common age-related objections to senior living and see how they differ from the real resident experience.
Prospective Resident: “I’m too young.”
Resident Experience: It’s not about age, but more about timing.
Moving to senior living has more to do with the right timing than the right age. Seniors of all ages can benefit from community living in several ways. You might be younger than the average resident but benefit from access to supportive care services to meet your current health care needs. Or you may find camaraderie with a group of active residents despite your older age. Key factors that best inform your decision to move should include current life circumstances, your level of independence, health needs, social needs, and finances.
Prospective Resident: “I can take care of myself.”
Resident Experience: Many senior living residents have minimal care needs.
Many senior living residents live independently and make a move to a community primarily for the security, amenities, social environment, and maintenance-free lifestyle. Community living offers flexibility and peace of mind so adults can maintain their independence without the responsibility of caring for a home.
With tasks like housekeeping, home repairs, and meal preparation managed by community staff, seniors have time to do what they love: volunteer, visit family and friends, shop, travel, attend church, and more.
When a need for additional assistance arises, assisted living residents have access to supportive care services at their discretion, a valuable on-site benefit.
Prospective Resident: “I can still drive.”
Resident Experience: Many senior living residents continue to drive when they move.
Senior living residents have the option to keep their vehicles with them when moving to a community. Not only does this provide freedom to come and go, but it also provides a safety net of independence older adults enjoy for as long as possible.
Residents making a move to an independent or assisted living community often enjoy the benefit of a designated parking space or garage near their home. They can also take advantage of the community’s transportation services, which provide even greater flexibility and opportunity for traveling, group outings, and various new experiences.
Prospective Resident: “I’m too active.”
Resident Experience: Residents have access to extensive health and wellness opportunities.
Could an active lifestyle become easier after moving into a senior living community? Many residents say yes! Community living is designed to support seniors in maintaining their health and independence.
How does a senior living lifestyle help residents reach their health and wellness goals?
• Residents walk through the community daily.
• Residents can access a variety of fitness options, from instructor-led group classes to individualized sessions, walking clubs, strength training, swimming, yoga, gym access, and more.
• Residents can lead or facilitate classes when inspired to do so.
• Residents can stay connected with wellness opportunities in the local community, such as YMCA memberships, charity races, Silver Sneakers, and other recreational programs.
Beyond fitness opportunities is the opportunity to stay well-connected with other community interests and initiatives, such as volunteering at the polls on election day, working at the local library, weekly lunch dates with friends, or serving at a favorite non-profit organization. Many senior living communities maintain strong partnerships with community organizations and offer activities and programs to encourage resident involvement and leadership.
Prospective Resident: “I don’t want to spend all my money on senior living costs.”
Resident Experience: Senior living is more affordable than expected.
Many people assume that senior living is financially out-of-reach for the average retiree, but that is not always the case. Begin by comparing costs between communities, outlining the options you need, and selecting the living option that allows you to stretch your funds as far as possible. Plan for the long term by setting aside a mix of funds from monthly income, savings, and the sale of your home when you downsize.
Seniors in need of assistance with daily activities or medication management may find that a senior living community is advantageous for the benefit of 24/7 staffing and support. In a senior living setting, quality and consistency of care are monitored within the community, which provides peace of mind and efficiency of care delivery for seniors and families. Alternatively, private in-home care services for 12-24 hours a day can be a costly investment, and skilled nursing care can cost more than double the monthly rental cost of an assisted living community.
Prospective Resident: “I’m not interested in ‘old people’ activities.”
Resident Experience: Senior living activities are inspired by resident interests and designed for connection and engagement.
Senior living communities are more than just a place to live, but a “community” of friends and neighbors who share common goals and life experiences. At the heart of community life is a connection with other people, and senior living activities support this by offering opportunities to foster relationships, share your unique contributions, and find a sense of meaning and purpose - no matter your age.
A full calendar of activities and events appeals to residents and encourages social bonds. Members of the community are invited to get involved in and enjoy what they love. (Think: art classes, gardening workshops, cooking and baking, spiritual support groups, science programs, history lectures, music, entertainment, tech classes, and more…)
What is Life Really Like in a Senior Living Community?
See for yourself what life is really like in a senior living community and why it can be a great fit for you or a senior loved one. Schedule a visit to one of our Texas communities to meet with our residents and speak with a Stoney Brook senior living counselor who can help you decipher facts from fiction.
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